I find that when you are female and in and around 'old male' paradigm acting individuals it can be an interesting time. It can definitely be an 'opportunity' to feel and display patience and command some respect and be heard within a situation.
I recently encountered a neighbour who was being unreasonable and out of line in expecting and demanding that things go his way. I was surrounded by men who were telling me what they wanted and did not seem to take my suggestions into consideration. l also knew that my final answer was the one that was to be followed.
As I stood listening to one person over the phone yelling and swearing and demanding me to ensure he gets his way, then another in front of me telling and threatening me that he will force his wishes upon me (and there was a language barrier and a large age gap - so that made it worse for a time because he felt I had to listen and what I had to say was not valid - you know that kind of attitude that when you speak they start talking over you...ya). As I stood there quickly trying to access the situation I felt a neutrality coming over me as to take a step back and listen, see, feel and think through it.
What I noticed is that I almost got sucked into giving in and realizing that there needs to be a compromise and I wouldn't settle for anything less. As I smile and speak calmly I realize I'm not heard. I let them talk and then put my 'Divine' hat on...asking my guides to help me resolve this situation. As I took a deep breath I asked for answers...I decided to make my own decisions with taking others' wishes into consideration. As I started to tell them how it was going to be I felt sold and guided. I asked for a resolution that will be in our highest good. I listen to more threats and comments about what all the other neighbours didn't like about what we were doing.
I felt self assured in knowing we had every right to what we did on our own property and that we are good, considerate neighbours and as I clearly continued to listen and speak I made it clear on what things were going to be and I walked away.
In the end the outcome was good, the delay in decision making created the job to not be completely finished until next spring, but the moral of this story was to remain calm, allow others time to be heard and to hold firm on what you desire - but most importantly hold 'trust' and 'faith' close to your heart and knowingness and believe all will work out 'as it may'.
I could have reacted in the same energy as the 'four' men did, I could have got sucked into the dynamic of ego and aggression, I could have been upset in not being heard etc....I decided to have the faith and put positive energy towards what I desired the most... I stood my ground with heart and with firm conviction that all would be well...and so be it! Be it so! smiles
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