Life seems to be sooooo busy and time is so different this year. I hear and see how this energy is affecting so many including myself.
As I walk (sometimes wishing to run) through certain experiences I catch myself in many light-bulb moments where when the experience has past and I see my learning, feel my understanding and know which direction to proceed...it is within this grateful reflection I know the experience has changed me (always for the better).
I believe so many are experiencing some profound shifts and changes within their existence as well....I witness this through my work and discussions with others. Most cannot put their finger on what is different or are not in a space to see the birds-eye-view of the given situation. That is why some seek assistance, others may go to substances to escape. What ever your coping mechanism is - please remember to focus on what worked out, what is good, and what feels right when you come out the other side. It's easy to get sucked into reacting vs. being pro-active or taking a different view as to the circumstances - all 'perceived' hardships are blessings in disguise if you 'decide' to view it that way.
When I find myself in a scenario and I'm uncomfortable - I stop, breathe, and analyze what I am thinking (because I know that is what creates my feelings). I ask for guidance (from Divine)...request for the best outcome for myself and others who maybe involved. I ask for answers and monitor my reaction (feelings) to see where my energy is being spent. In the past when I was in a reactive mode - it never felt good to me and I know and realized that I could never take back a moment in time, I could not change it, so I learned to stop, feel and respond in knowing I have the power at that moment to trust things will work out. It is easy to be angry, it is easy to vent and freak out...it takes more awareness and understanding to connect to your heart in every situation with trust.
Responsibilities seem to be increasing for everyone, adults and children alike. Some children are not aware of what...why...and they feel overwhelmed and perhaps are reacting the only way they know how...with expression of anger or frustration or disconnection. As parents we are feeling the same thing and some of us have the capacity to filter and access our emotional intelligence whereas some do not because they are so consumed with 'too much' and our children feel us and learn from us.
Please do yourself and the people around you a favour....treat others as you would like them to treat you. When you are in a dark space your view is distorted....you may feel like a victim - only you have placed yourself there. We all have the capacity to shift our view...pull in the good, see the positive, take light in where you feel the most 'dark' or angry. You will be in a much better and happier place. Remember - we are all vibrational beings....emit the vibe you wish to see and feel! Namaste
I find that when you are female and in and around 'old male' paradigm acting individuals it can be an interesting time. It can definitely be an 'opportunity' to feel and display patience and command some respect and be heard within a situation.
I recently encountered a neighbour who was being unreasonable and out of line in expecting and demanding that things go his way. I was surrounded by men who were telling me what they wanted and did not seem to take my suggestions into consideration. l also knew that my final answer was the one that was to be followed.
As I stood listening to one person over the phone yelling and swearing and demanding me to ensure he gets his way, then another in front of me telling and threatening me that he will force his wishes upon me (and there was a language barrier and a large age gap - so that made it worse for a time because he felt I had to listen and what I had to say was not valid - you know that kind of attitude that when you speak they start talking over you...ya). As I stood there quickly trying to access the situation I felt a neutrality coming over me as to take a step back and listen, see, feel and think through it.
What I noticed is that I almost got sucked into giving in and realizing that there needs to be a compromise and I wouldn't settle for anything less. As I smile and speak calmly I realize I'm not heard. I let them talk and then put my 'Divine' hat on...asking my guides to help me resolve this situation. As I took a deep breath I asked for answers...I decided to make my own decisions with taking others' wishes into consideration. As I started to tell them how it was going to be I felt sold and guided. I asked for a resolution that will be in our highest good. I listen to more threats and comments about what all the other neighbours didn't like about what we were doing.
I felt self assured in knowing we had every right to what we did on our own property and that we are good, considerate neighbours and as I clearly continued to listen and speak I made it clear on what things were going to be and I walked away.
In the end the outcome was good, the delay in decision making created the job to not be completely finished until next spring, but the moral of this story was to remain calm, allow others time to be heard and to hold firm on what you desire - but most importantly hold 'trust' and 'faith' close to your heart and knowingness and believe all will work out 'as it may'.
I could have reacted in the same energy as the 'four' men did, I could have got sucked into the dynamic of ego and aggression, I could have been upset in not being heard etc....I decided to have the faith and put positive energy towards what I desired the most... I stood my ground with heart and with firm conviction that all would be well...and so be it! Be it so! smiles
I sit in so much comfort in KNOWING that everything is as it should be...outta be. I understand that I co-create my life and I am fully responsible in what I say, think and do - as that is what shapes life experience. Life doesn't just happen, it is created through choice and experience which in turn manifests a vibrational alignment with what I desire or not. Through those choices it forms emotions which greatly influence next thoughts, action and more feelings. You can decide what vibrational alignment you are in and or will take.... Its only one thought away...
I instructed a meditation class last evening and it was focused on opening and harmonizing the throat chakra. It was peaceful and powerful. Each participant in the room was there to shift and create more loving harmony for themselves. Each one with their own agenda and purpose in being there... and the universe brought them together to share in that profound experience of surrendering and connection. They were all there to achieve something within, and on the innate (soul) level to support each other. A collaboration of sorts...a union within and for the energy field we created together. I spoke about the characteristics and understanding of that particular energy centre (chakra) within and around the physical body - I also articulated this for contemplation and offered it as a spiritual lesson for this chakra:
Throat Chakra is not about who you are. It's about how you communicate who you are to others. If this Chakra is blocked, how you appear to others will be quite different than who you really are. This could possibly cause constant misunderstandings in life. It is much better to express what you really feel than to pretend you are someone that you are not. This is a brilliant and mighty lesson for so many.
My motto this year has been " It's better to be 100% of who you are than 50% of someone you think others want or need you to be." Be authentic to yourself as that is what will bring you your truth through vibrational alignment (Law of Attraction) to your joy - peace -and happiness.
Know yourself...be yourself and allow YOU to shine! See and feel who you really are! A brilliant light who was born unto this life to feel the hu-man (God & Man) experience.
When you can view your children as equals (from the inside) you gain a new and different perspective. As a parent who innately knows and understands the intricate workings of Universal Laws of Attraction I give my kids the freedom to learn (make those so called 'mistakes' - in truth there are no 'mistakes') their lessons in order to grow and experience this life. I also believe that they are as much of a teacher to me as I am to them. There is a fine dance of power as they express what they want, and believe they need. It is my role and responsibility to ensure their development and to some degree achievement. My role as a Mom is to love, nurture, take care of their physical and emotional needs but on a Soul level - listen, hear and act upon what is in their hearts in order for them to be happy and prosper. I openly discuss what I understand on a soul level - and they see and feel who I am to them on their soul quest.
I feel blessed and so fortunate to have them both as teachers, to assist me in my learning of patience, love, reflection of kindness and to SHOW them how to be a giving and honest person.
Sensitive children have a deep desire to be respected and heard - as they have much to say and share. Please take the time to kneel to their eye level - really hear what they are saying and in a calm - loving voice reply back with intension that they will hear you clearly. To be Continued...
How many times in your recent life have you been blessed to say - I feel happy! The kind of happy in feeling and knowing that all is well and on purpose... not the kind because you got a new car or job...the kind that is deep within you - your essence whispering - I love you, I love life, I love where we arrrreeee......
I feel I am riding the wave of flow - the kind that glides you to connect to the 'perfect' people, places and circumstances. I have to say this feels so heart felt and I do not fixate on one particular thing that is bringing me this contentment - this comes only after I have been on a grand roller coaster of circumstances over the past couple weeks (the kind that may send some away in a white jacket or into destructive behavours). I reflect back and know all was deliberate in order for me to realize, release and relax! ahhhhh I still have the lingering final energy of circumstances that are clearing themselves up and that is ok....i appreciate the wisdom I gained, the connections I made and the insight it has eternally provided my soul and being.
Since my metamorphosis I feel no urgent emotions, I feel no need to 'engage' in any (low vibe) situations, I feel good and within that I know I am reflecting what I wish to see in this world - my world. I see and feel the difference within my children because I know I am centered and on purpose. Therefore, I know that resonates with them and will aid their energy to follow their happiness into each and every day! How great is that!
I thank God - our beloved Creator and Source of all things...all good things! Namaste!
Well, that is certainly a loaded title! Everything is on purpose...I have come to fully understand and know that every thing I read, hear, and say is all on purpose. As I sat in meditation this morning I positioned myself facing the sunshine and within that warm embrace I focused in on my breath, as I became centered and calm I asked the question "What am I to know" and as I sat there in comfort I was given an understanding that all that I accumulate from my personal experience is on purpose...meaning that every single word I hear, every concept I comprehend, every thing I say is for good reason.
Now, I wasn't sure what to make of it but then as a couple hours went by after I finished meditation I reflected back on a few conversations I had with a client and family members and It soon became crystal clear to me that what we spoke about I knew the answers and was able to convey understanding from my source of what I have either recently learned, heard or came across. What jumped out at me the most was the feeling of great connection and gratitude and a deep understanding of how complex we are as hu-mans (God and Man) and we are so finely interwoven and necessary for each other. Gotta love life!! Namaste
From time to time Karen speaks about what she is personally experiencing and how she feels and thinks through life...
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